When I was at the Book Expo America this year a small blue book with a Tiffany blue cover caught my eye: “The Spiritual Rules of Engagement: How Kabbalah Can Help Your Soul Mate Find You” by Yehuda Berg.  I enjoyed learning about Kabbalah in the context of relationships, since I believe that life is all about relationships.  The ancient wisdom really resonates with so much of what we need in our life today.  It talks about how love is not about receiving, it’s about giving, without expectations.  And knowing how much pleasure your partner gets from the act of giving, by receiving you are giving – so now you are both sharing with each other, and that is a beautiful thing.  Love is about learning and growing together, and building a strong relationship by working on it together.