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31 Dec

Fun in Phoenix!

Just got back from Phoenix – and what a fun trip! If you haven’t heard, I am now the relationship expert for mysweetconnection.com. This is a really cool website that is basically an extension of local TV station KTVK. It’s on the web, so anyone can access it, and it’s totally cool – but it you’re from Phoenix there are all kinds of added benefits, discounts, coupons, contests, etc. I flew in via Southwest from Burbank airport. Gotta love Burbank airport – it’s such an easy way to go. You valet park the car, and for an extra fee they’ll even have it washed for you by the time you get back. It’s a small airport so I didn’t have to walk far, which is great since I’m still having problems with my broken foot – it’s been 9 weeks, though, so I’m walking pretty well. Southwest is kind of a drag because you have to wait i line – I couldn’t sit down. There’s no assigned seating so everyone stakes out there ground when they get there so the best seat. But it’s an easy flight, just over an hour. Phoenix airport is HUGE! It’s beautiful, and new and clean and everything, but I had to hike to get from the terminal to the rental car shuttle, and then the shuttle drove us for about 10 minutes or so to the rental car place. I have a pretty terrible sense of direction, so having a map doesn’t seem to make much difference – I need a navigator – I need my husband Greg to tell me which way to go! It took me longer than it was supposed to but I found my way to the Hampton Inn Hotel, and it was great. Barely got checked in and I was out the door to go meet my fabulous webmaster, Brian, and his lovely wife, Lisa, for dinner. I’ve known Brian for over a year now, and I have to say, even though we have never met in person he’s got to be one of my best friends. I certainly “talk” with him more every day than I do anyone else! So it was great to finally connect and we probably could have gabbed all night – but I had to get back and start getting ready for the morning’s show. Got to the 3TV station at 7:30 for my 8:15 segment on “Break-Up Tips.” This is the theme for the site this week since the movie with Jennifer Aniston was coming out on Friday. I had my tips all ready to go, and everything was running smoothly. The mood was great around the studio because the Suns are in the playoffs and the team mascot, the Gorilla, came in to dance. All fun stuff. Then when I got to the set, there was breaking news. This happens quite frequently in the news business! Some guy was swarmed by bees and while running away fell off a cliff and a helicopter had to come rescue him. Very dramatic! Since this was a big story, and unexpected, my segment was much shorter than expected, but I still got the good information in, and a plug for the website, so I was happy. After the show I realized I had forgotten my earrings so I stopped at Target to pick some up. Is Target the best of what? They have everything! Not only that, it’s inexpensive! Picked up about 5 pairs, stopped at a deli for a tuna sandwich, then back to the hotel to watch The Young and The Restless before check out time. Then I went back to the station in the afternoon to shoot some promos for mysweetconnection. The Sweet Connection girls are all briliant and beautiful and are having a great time together with this whole project. And it shows! The press kit is darling. The commercials are clever. It’s all very branded, easy to navigate, and totally fun. I had a great time playing to the camera, then spent a little time working on a segment for the afternoon show which will air later in the month. Quick trip from the station to the airport and I was done. Hardly noticed the 106 degree heat… except when I was driving and the steering wheel was too hot to touch! I can’t wait to go back!

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31 Dec

The Today Show!

I feel like I’ve got the routine down now, I’ve been on the Today Show twice already! The show is live in New York, and I’m here in Southern California, so that means a flight across the country the day before in order to arrive on time. I like flying Jet Blue because they have a direct flight from Burbank airport to JFK and then I don’t have to deal with the hassle of LAX. I can drive my car and leave it overnight no problem. And Jet Blue has individual TVs for each seat so I can watch a movie or flip around channels the whole time if I want! It’s 5 hours in the air, so I bring some work, (not that I get much done, especially when I’m stuck in the middle seat!) and a few magazines. I also bring food, because Jet Blue has snacks, but no meals – it’s part of the way they say they keep the price down, although it didn’t seem all that much less expensive to me. Still, I bring my own meals anyway because I’m mostly vegan and airlines don’t get it. My Today Show producer, Jennifer Gentile, works out of their Chicago office. I haven’t met her in person, we just talk on the phone, and e-mail back and forth. She’s very smart and super talented, great to work with! And, like me, she works odd hours so it’s easy to get things accomplished in a hurry, which is what we need to do in TV all the time. Jen found me from this website – isn’t that cool? It’s a lot of time traveling, and a lot of time preparing, for what amounts to about 3 minutes or so of time on the air. But it is all worth it when the segment turns out great! The idea is to get a lot of good information jam-packed into a little amount of time, and make it fun and entertaining, too. Al Roker interviewed me both times and he’s really good about keeping it light. He’s the same great guy in person as he is on the air. I also had a chance to talk with Ann Curry. What a beauty – inside and out! I gave her my “What’s Your Dosha Baby?” book the first time I was there and she took the quiz and told me she’s a Vata. So we have that in common! Ann is currently on the cover of More magazine – a great article about her, and she told me she was really pleased with how it turned out. The Today Show set is outside for the summer while they remodel the new set before Meredith Vieira’s arrival in September. There’s a lot of energy with people all around – and you’d think it would be chaotic, but it’s not! It’s all such a finely tuned machine, everything clicks into place smoothly, everyone does their job and has a good time. I had a great time – and I hope to be back again and again!

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31 Dec

Stars Behaving Badly

Mel Gibson is the most recent celebrity to land in the headlines for his bad behavior.  I’m sorry, but it’s just shameful.  There’s no excuse for his ranting – alcohol certainly is no excuse!  The sad thing is that Mel has spent years honing his image as a loving family man, a good guy, a talented actor and director – and now our perception of him is changed with this one incident.  How unnecessary.  Do stars have some sort of stupid gene that lands them into trouble like this? Lindsay Lohan, on the other hand, has spent much of her time honing her image as a party girl.  She’s not even 21 yet and still she is in virtually every celebrity gossip rag coming in and out of clubs at all hours of the day and night.  I remember sweet Lindsay in The Parent Trap – and thinking “this girl is going to be a star!”  Well, it seems there’s a difference between a star and a diva – and when Lindsay showed up late to work and called in sick one too many times on the set of her new film, her boss, the producer, called her on it in a letter he released to the public.  And what happens?  Her mother comes to her defense, saying Lindsay is a serious actress who will win an Oscar one day.  Where was mom when Lindsay was running around partying, smoking and drinking?  I’m hoping this letter was a wake-up call for the girl, and that she gets her act together before she turns into another Hollywood has-been. Paris Hilton has the audacity to compare herself to Marilyn Monroe and Princess Diana. What? Talent?  Personality?  I have yet to see anything of the sort from the heiress who has made an art of being famous for being famous… and rich in this case.  Have you heard her song?  The bulk of the budget was spent on computer enhancement for her voice – and it still sounds bad.  My advice for this young lady:  go out and serve.  Literally.  Find a charity and get to work.  You have enough money – spend it wisely by sharing it with those in need.  Just one of your Fendi purses would feed a village in Asia for a year.  Did you know that you can buy 100 water buffalo in India for just $2,200?  That’s probably what Paris spends on sushi night at Nobu. Priorities, people!

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31 Dec

Australia

Just got back from Australia!  My step-son Ryan graduated from the Police Academy so we went over for the ceremony – it was fabulous!  They put on a show – guys jumping from helicopters, police dogs, a parade, the whole nine yards… very cool. I always have a great time in Australia.  The best part is that the people are so nice and helpful.  It’s funny because here in the U.S., everywhere we go people hear the accent and ask Greg “Where are you from?” and when we’re in Australia I’m the one they’re asking! One thing I really appreciate about Australia is the food – it’s GREAT!  Even the food courts in the malls are fabulous.  They have these big salad and sandwich bars – a whole bunch of fresh veggies and meats displayed, you pick the bread, the spreads, and then any of these many things that you want on your sandwich, then they assemble it and grill it for you so it’s totally custom and fresh and exactly what you want!  What a concept!  That’s what we need here. We also came across this terrific restaurant in Goulburn called Rimbolin.  My mother-in-law has a gluten-free diet and they had a wide variety of gluten-free items on the menu.  How refreshing!  She loved it, and we did, too.  Just about every restaurant we went to had soy milk as an option.  In many ways, Australia is WAY ahead of the us when it comes to healthy eating.  They are more environmentally conscious in general, too.  It seems like everyone composts, everyone recycles, everyone uses environmentally friendly products.  It’s just the way it’s done.  Love it!
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31 Dec

October comes

How can it be October 1st already?  This has been such a strange year.  It’s been one of those best of times, worst of times scenarios that I thought only Dickens could experience.  And now as the year is winding down, I’m winding up to put these lessons learned into something tangible.  Time moves on, growth continues, creativity bursts forth from even the cracks in the sidewalks.  This is something I’m compelled to do.  Autumn calls to nest, to get comfortable, to be warm.  But the inner urging forces me to be uncomfortable, to stretch, to move into that uncertainty, to test myself yet again.  Somehow this will be good for me, so I abandon any further thoughts of procrastination.  I am writing my new book!

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31 Dec

Magic at the Castle!

Last weekend Greg and I had the pleasure of visiting the Magic Castle in Hollywood once again!  Our dear friend Michael Vincent, magician extraordinaire from London, was in town to do his show and he invited us.  We were amazed, astrounded, and entertained!  And we laughed like crazy!  It is a wonderful  place, old time Hollywood where you have to dress up, coat and tie for the men.  Since this is October there were Halloween decorations everywhere, setting the tone for a festive and fun experience.  We brought my sister, Marci, and her boyfriend Steve, and they treated us to chocolate martinis after dinner – decadent!  Check out Michael’s website, he’s phenomenal!
http://www.michaelvincentproductions.com
and here’s a photo of us!

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31 Dec

Mel Gibson’s Apocalyptic Career Slide

Saturday night we’re at the movie theatre in Calabasas settled in to see “The Prestige.”  This is a popular theatre with its stadium seating, located in “The Commons” where there’s upscale shopping and nice restaurants.  I had dinner with my husband at Marmalade and sat at a table next to Kyle Chandler (Friday Night Lights) and his family.  We’re always seeing Hollywood people there.  Anyhow, previews come on, mostly ones we’ve seen before, no reaction from the audience.  Then… here comes a preview of “Mel Gibson’s Apocalypto.”  It plays all the way through.  I don’t understand it, there’s no dialogue, no recognizable faces, but I know which movie it is right away.  The last screen shot is the title – it comes up full screen: “Mel Gibson’s Apocalypto” – and something happened I have NEVER experienced before in a movie theatre.  The audience BOOED!  They actually booed… not just one, but several people, it was bad.  And then they started throwing out comments.  Negative comments.  About Mel and the movie.  And I heard one woman say: “He was drunk when he made it!” Wow.  Overnight Mel Gibson went from being one of the most beloved leading men in Hollywood, Mr. Family Man, “Sexiest Man Alive,” to being the butt of jokes, disrespected, and disliked… even hated. I have to stay neutral on this.  I think what Mel did was stupid, and the way he handled the aftermath was even worse.  But I can’t discount all the good work he’s done up to this point.  I wouldn’t boo his movie!  I probably won’t go see it, but I hadn’t planned on seeing it anyway, it’s just a little too “out there” for my taste. If I were advising Mel I’d say apologize, again and again, and put your money where your mouth is – contribute to some great causes.  And then apologize again – and be humble, not goofy on TV like you were with Diane Sawyer strangling a toaster.  That’s just not flattering.  And lay low for awhile.  It is possible to change people’s opinions.  It’s happened many times.  But you can’t come off all cocky and arrogant, you have to be sincere.  And remember that actions speak louder than words. Just trying to help! 🙂

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31 Dec

Another celebrity divorce

I was sad when I heard about Reese Witherspoon and Ryan Phillippe’s break-up.  They looked like a really cute couple – young, in love, two little kids, a sweet family.  2006 seems to be the year of the divorce.  It’s rampant if you go by what you read in the paper. The whole Sara Evans scandal – every week someone else comes out with an announcement.  Paul McCartney and Heather Mills, Denise Richards and Charlie Sheen, Heather Locklear and Richie Sambora, Whitney Houston and Bobby Brown, Hilary Swank and Chad Lowe, Selma Blair and Ahmet Zappa, Matt LeBlanc and Melissa McKnight, Travis Barker and Shanna Moakler, Kate Hudson and Chris Robinson, David Hasselhoff and Barbara Bach, and rapid rebounders Brad Pitt and Jennifer Aniston and Tori Spelling and Charlie Shanian.  And who could forget Nick and Jessica?  That’s all just in 2006!  And the year isn’t over yet… Here’s something interesting to note… none of the women changed their last names.  Okay, so they’re big Hollywood stars and their name is their “brand” – but to me it makes more of a commitment when you actually change your name.  Is there more competition within a celebrity marriage?  There must be strain from traveling – but why doesn’t love conquer all?  We have to assume that they all entered their marriages “til death do us part” – and we have to wonder what went wrong along the way.  Living life in the spotlight brings its own burdens.  Today any move can be captured on someone’s camera phone and posted on the internet within minutes, and it usually is. The quintessential marriage everyone looks to is Joanne Woodward and Paul Newman.  They are great role models.  Somehow they’ve managed to stay together, and keep their names out of the tabloids.  Dignity, grace, respect, responsibility.  It’s strange to think that the next longest running marriage might just be Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore’s.

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31 Dec

Goodbye to 2006 and what a year it was

Before we start a new year, I think it’s important to reflect back on the year that has passed, and the lessons we have learned during this time. 2006 was a year that I will always remember.  It was a difficult year, one of the most difficult I’ve ever been through.  But through the challenges I’ve grown, and mellowed.  I have a newfound perspective that I couldn’t have achieved any other way. I met my friend Fred back in 1980.  I had just gotten a job as a Page at ABC Entertainment and Fred was one of the first people to make me feel welcome.  He showed me the ropes, and quickly became one of my closest friends.  In 1983 I got married and Fred was at the wedding.  When I had my first son, named Freddy after his great grandfather, Fred was touched that the baby shared his name.  Fred’s mother would babysit little Freddy for me when I took classes.  When my sister moved to Los Angeles I introduced her to Fred, and romance bloomed.  Marci and Fred were married soon after that, and Fred was now officially family. My sister and I were pregnant at the same time, and my son Brian, and Marci’s son Arthur, were both born in 1989.  Our prayers were answered when we finally got a little girl in the family with Marci’s daughter Emma in 1991, with Freddy off at school, the three little cousins spent time at our mother’s house while Marci and I worked together getting my business off the ground.  These were very sweet times, and our families were very close. When the kids started school and Marci went back to work full time, we didn’t get to see each other as often.  But as family, we shared all the life moments, and remained an important part of each other’s lives.  Marci and Fred were there for me when I went through my divorce, and they celebrated with me when Greg and I got married. Fast forward to January of 2006.  The day started out like any other, but phoned me in the morning asking me to “stand by” because Fred had been taken to the hospital.  She didn’t know what was wrong, but it was serious.  The plan was that the kids would go to school, and I’d be there for them when they got home and hopefully we’d know more by then.  Unfortunately nothing that we found out was good.  Fred was diagnosed with an dissected aortic aneurism.  He was helicoptered to Cedars-Sinai Hospital and rushed into emergency surgery.  We were told that this was the same condition that John Ritter died from.  It’s genetic, and for the most part people don’t even know they have it until it’s too late. That was the beginning of three weeks of heavy emotions.  We were never sure if Fred would live or die, if he would walk or not, or what further challenges he would have to endure if he did make it out of the hospital.  Each day was excruciating, with tests, procedures, more surgeries, and more uncertainties.  We cried, and prayed, and hoped, and played music for Fred and talked with him.  I’m still not sure if he ever was truly aware that we were there, he was not conscious most of the time.  Friends and family rallied around.  Many came to give blood, some brought food, or took Marci to lunch.  It was very clear that Fred was loved, and everyone he knew was deeply concerned. Fred’s mother and brother were visibly distraught.  My heart would break for them.  For those three weeks it was as if time stood still.  Nothing else mattered, nothing else happened.  It was so overwhelming and all consuming. Finally the doctors agreed that nothing more could be done, and Fred passed away. Marci and I spent the next few days making funeral arrangements.  There was a moment when we were at the funeral parlor and we just looked at each other, wondering how we got to this place.  This isn’t something you could ever anticipate, or prepare for.  This isn’t something you get over.  More than 900 people attended the service, and Marci gave an eloquent eulogy.  She looked poised and peaceful, but I knew she was falling apart inside.  We had three weeks  to get ready, to say goodbye, to make sense of things, but there were no answers, no resolution.  And we knew that there might never be. A few weeks went by and we did our best to get back to some kind of a routine.  So much had changed but we had to keep going.  Just when I thought I was starting to handle things again, I got a call from my dad’s girlfriend.  She had never called me before, so I knew something was wrong.  She told me that my dad was lying on the floor and that he couldn’t get up.  I told her to call 911, but she said my dad wouldn’t let her, so Greg and I rushed out the door to see for ourselves what had happened.  I called my brother and he said he’d meet us there. When we got to my dad’s place the door was open, and I found my dad lying down on a cushion on his bedroom floor.  He was coherent, and he said he was just resting, but it was clear that he couldn’t get up.  Even Greg and my brother couldn’t lift him, so despite my dad’s protests, we called 911.  A fire engine and a paramedic and a police car arrived at the same time – all the hoopla that my dad hates.  The guys are used to dealing with stubborn old men who insist nothing is wrong with them, so they were able to convince my dad to go with them to the hospital.  Turns out he had a stroke. Although my dad was coherent and aware that first night, the next three days he was entirely out of it, which I learned is typical for people who have a stroke.  I’ve never seen my father so helpless, so weak.  It was awful.  He didn’t know where he was, and he kept trying to get out of bed and he’d fall down.  They had to strap him to the hospital bed to keep him still. Being back in the hospital made all the emotional wounds feel still fresh.  I was amazed and in awe at how strong the spirit can be.  As hard as it was, we got through it.  My sister and I had always been close, but the experience with Fred brought us even closer together.  And now with all this going on with my dad, the three of us kids, my brother and sister and I, were really there for each other.  We had to make big decisions about how to handle my dad’s care.  With a stroke you really don’t know until months later how the person is going to heal.  So many things can happen.  We knew for sure that we didn’t want him living alone anymore, so we would have to go out and research places for him to move to. Of course amidst all of this I’m still working and managing life in general, and one night I’m at Brian’s volleyball game, carrying purse and jacket and baby gift for the coach and I trip in the bleachers.  I knew I hurt my foot badly because I was in terrible pain, but this was the big game and I stuck it out until it was over.  By that time my foot had swollen up twice its size.  A nice dad and Brian helped me to the car, Brian got me home, and Greg took me to the emergency room.  Yep, x-rays showed the foot was broken.  The right foot.  Couldn’t drive for six weeks. My brother and sister drove me around as we toured retirement living places, and I hobbled around on crutches.  My dad was transferred to a rehabilitation hospital and Greg drove me there every day so I could visit my dad and talk with his doctors.  When I graduated to a cane we decided on an Assisted Living Faciliity near my dad’s home, and we all moved his stuff over.  I overdid it walking around so much and sprained my left ankle, so I basically was stuck sliding around on my butt for the next few weeks. My body healed, but it took longer for my mind and emotions to heal.  I went through a kind of post traumatic shock syndrome.  Old emotional stuff from the divorce came up, I just felt like I had so much to deal with all at once.  But again, the spirit is resilient, I made it through, stronger than ever. And thankfully, my dad recovered 100%.  He’s as strong and ornery as he ever was!  I drove him around to his doctor’s appointments for awhile, but now he’s comfortable taking the shuttle at his place so he goes on his own. The second half of the year I worked a lot.  Helped establish the Online Peace Cell and co-produced a Celebration of Peace.  Did The Today Show twice, and MSNBC News twice, and went to NY twice for Satellite Media Tours.  And Greg and I went to Australia for his son Ryan’s graduation from the police academy.  On the homefront, I helped Brian with his college applications, and had a lot of fun helping out during Homecoming week at his school. So what will 2007 bring?  I have no idea!  I know what I would like to have happen, but I don’t know for sure what the Universe has in store for me.  I’ll just take each day as it comes, going about my business, setting intentions, taking action, and then letting go of all of it because anything can happen, good, bad, tragic, wonderful – and whatever happens I know it’s all going to be okay.  Because it just is.
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31 Dec

Dryer Drama

My washer and dryer are 10 years old now, which I understand is the lifetime of these appliances.  We use them a lot – probably 8 loads or so a week, so they might be older than their chronological age.  Last month I was having problems with the dryer again, so I had the guy come out and do a full service, cleaned out all the lint, etc, it was beautiful.  For about 3 weeks.  Then Wednesday morning I went to run a load and it wouldn’t start.  Dead as a doornail. Another guy came out yesterday and told me we need a new motor.  I wasn’t crazy about putting in a new motor in an old machine – and given the wear and tear it’s been through over the years I was thinking we were due for a new one.  After all, if I put the price of a new motor towards the new machine it couldn’t be that much more, right? So, I headed off to Sear’s.  I mean, the sooner I order, the sooner it’s delivered, and I already have wet laundry waiting to be dried so I’m kind of in a hurry here.  It’s been 10 years since I’ve been dryer shopping, and let me tell you, things are different out there!  Prices are higher – what did I expect?  And, of course, there’s the whole washer/dryer set thing happening which made me want to get a new washing machine, too.  A lot of the washers are front-loading now – so I asked the difference between front-load and top-load.  Big difference, turns out!  The traditional top-load machine uses 40 gallons of water to do a wash.  The new front load kind uses just 14 gallons of water!  That’s amazing… and when you figure I do 8 loads a week, that’s a huge savings of water.  The other difference is that the top load version has that spin thing in the middle to rotate the clothes around, up and down.  The front load kind uses gravity, so it doesn’t have that middle thing.  You can fit more stuff in there. I opted for the bottom of the line front-load washer and its matching companion.  The old machines will be hauled off and recycled or donated when the new ones arrive tomorrow. Life’s little interruptions.  I wasn’t planning on spending the money, but in the long run, I feel better for saving water and energy, and now I have at least another 10 years to go before I’ll have to deal with it again.  By then they’ll have some other fancy features I’ll just have to have.

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